To be an Unusual of Gender is not easy. It is very painful. For children, young adults and mature people and seniors.

The best way to react to sufferings is to laugh. To laugh is a good strategy against sufferings.Don't take yourself and your special unusual condition too seriously - we are mortals, and all that will pass away in less than one century - probably.

Not every Unusual of Gender is homosexual. Homosexuality is a direction, orientation, relationship. Gender dysphoria is related to perceiving oneself, self-perception.

Not all Unusual of Gender, even when suffering a gender dysphoria, suffers from mental problems. In fact rarely they suffer from mental problems.

There is no specific mental disorder that leads to gender dysphoria. The "Gender Identity Disorder" was a fiction created by American psychiatrists - but they are already back - even if belatedly.

On the other hand, the intense suffering caused by gender dysphoria can cause mental weaknesses that need to be diagnosed and followed up.These mental acquired fragilities as a consequence, are fairly frequent and always need to be investigated for not placing the patient in risk during transition.

So all gender dysphoric that desires and needs significant bodily changes, even possibly reversible, need a mental screening, just in case, for protection of the person own integrity.

You can do it fast, simple and even at a distance web service as Gendercare - for the dysphoric unless clear evidence to the contrary - is mentally and physically sane - despite being in internal disharmony due to human diversity generated in nature which itself is always different.

There is a whole spectrum of shades and gradations in gender space - where stand typical conditions - such as cross-dressers or transvestites - who only want to dress and makeup from time to time, or transgender people, who want bodily changes, important and permanent, even if not complete, and extreme cases, or Transsexuals (also known as Benjamin Syndromes), who want the complete and absolute transition, including genital; Among these typical classifiable gradations, there are subgroups, such crossdressers who want a bit of bodily changes without changing their sexual function, or transgender people who want to keep the genitals even inactive, or others who want them active, and transsexual people when there are among them numerous gradations and nuances. Diversity is very rich in possibilities, always, in nature.

1It is important to understand who we are and where we came from. We are creatures, complex organisms, mammals and primates, and evolutionarily developed naturally on Earth. We are differentiated primates - but primates. For this, Nature gives us, as in all other organisms, an intrinsic diversity of our process of existence, and we must always respect this process.

The human primates, as part of this natural process of development, develop families, cultures, cults, beliefs and ideologies, always derived from its insertion in Nature as belonging to primates, among mammals.Among the big human natural diversity, among others there is the diversity of gender identities, regardless of the type of genitals, culture and social environment.

Gender identity is derived from the brain. It is in the basal regions of the primate brain - in systems that are common to human primates and nonhumans - who form the core, the core of gender identity. This core is modulated by the environment, culture, LIFE - is modulated but not built or destroyed.

Every assessment (diagnosis or recognition) of a condition of gender dysphoria should be based on recognizing how the brain has been shaped - by genes and hormones during pregnancy - as in primates during pregnancy is that these basal circuits are structurally shaped.

Here comes the question: how to survive, what to do, and what can be done, what not to do?

Possibly you will think: As an unusual person I feel myself in a web of fate - if it exists - and it all seems so hard! How will I survive?

We will seek to develop here, with time a manual for survival - in a cruel world like ours.